Baku, August 16, 2025 In recent years, the average age of marriage in Azerbaijan has been steadily rising, with both men and women delaying family life. Experts warn that the trend, driven by social, economic, and psychological factors, risks weakening the traditional institution of marriage.
Economic Pressures and Career Focus
According to Mehriban Zeynalova, head of the “Clean World” Women’s Aid Public Union, many young people spend most of their time working or studying, leaving little opportunity for relationships.
“People become so focused on building careers and financial stability that marriage takes second place,” she explained. Young men often delay marriage until they feel capable of financially supporting a family, while women increasingly prioritize education and professional growth.
Zeynalova noted that unlike in the past, parents are less willing to shoulder the economic burden or play a moderating role in their children’s marriages. “If parents do get involved, it is often to exert control rather than provide support,” she said.
Psychological Fears and Unrealistic Expectations
Psychologist Aytan Alakbarova told Sherg.az that many young people mentally experience “family drama” before marriage even begins. This anticipation of conflict and responsibility discourages them from taking the step. She pointed out that cultural expectations—such as lavish engagement parties, henna ceremonies, and expensive wedding customs—add to the hesitation.
Some women postpone marriage to focus on their careers and later compare their income to potential partners, creating further tension. “If a woman earns more, she may question why she should take on the role of supporting her husband. This mentality erodes trust in marriage,” Alakbarova explained.
Loans, Weddings, and Divorce Risks
Financial obligations tied to weddings also play a role. Many couples take out loans to cover wedding costs, only to face repayment disputes shortly after marriage. “Arguments over debt can turn minor disagreements into storms, leading to divorce within months,” Alakbarova said.
She added that young people sometimes even factor in future expenses such as gender reveal parties or children’s birthdays, leading them to avoid marriage altogether. “For many, marriage has become coded in their minds as a burden rather than a joy,” she observed.
The “Ideal Age” for Marriage
Despite these challenges, experts agree that there is still an optimal time to marry. According to Alakbarova, the healthiest and most sustainable marriages tend to occur when women marry between 22–24 and men between 26–27.
“At this stage, both partners are more mature, aware of their responsibilities, and better equipped to make suitable choices,” she noted.
